Sensual massage, also known as erotic massage, is an intimate form of bodywork. It’s designed to stimulate and awaken your entire body, mind, and emotions through physical touch and sensory engagement, including genital arousal and body-t0-body contact. In a female-t0-female massage, you’ll also experience the benefits of connecting intimately with another woman.
My sensual massage is a 90-minute full-body massage that gradually turns erotic. It’s tailored to your desires and boundaries and is delivered at hotels in Liverpool, Manchester, and London city centres.
I am a woman who works exclusively with women and am trained specifically in the art of arousing and satisfying the female body.
A female-to-female sensual massage isn’t only for lesbian women. It’s also the perfect option for:
Women who struggle with anxiety, shame, or inexperience around sex or the body and want a secure and calming environment where they can open up to their potential for pleasure.
Bicurious women looking for a controlled experience with another woman to experiment and build confidence.
Bisexual or pansexual women who have male partners and miss being intimate with other women.
Straight or heteroflexible women who would like a true full-body massage but don’t feel comfortable receiving it from a male masseur.
Neurodivergent women with social anxiety or sensory sensitivities that can make sex daunting – or with a desire to play with their sensitivities in erotic sensory-seeking.
Separated, divorced, or widowed women who aren’t quite ready for a new relationship.
Women in relationships who aren’t getting everything they need from their partner(s) for one reason or another.
Busy professionals who don’t have the time or headspace for a relationship.
Women with difficulties reaching orgasm.
Dominant women and habitual givers who want to learn how to let go and receive during sex.
Women who have cultural or religious restrictions on their sexuality and need a safe place to explore it.
Women who want to fulfil a fantasy.
Adventurous women seeking a new and unusual experience.
Women who are tired of purely desk-based, digital living, who long to get more in touch with their bodies and senses.
Anyone else who wants a relaxing, safe erotic encounter free from anyone else’s judgment or agenda.
Do any of these sound like you?
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Get in touch via the booking form below. Feel free to bring up questions and concerns there.
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When I contact you, arrange a date, time, and location. I’ll send you a screenshot of the hotel confirmation and the questionnaire where you can tell me about your desires and boundaries.
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Use the link I send you to pay the 50% deposit.
I’ll arrive at the hotel early to prepare the room and my body. I’ll message you at some point before to let you know that all is proceeding smoothly with the preparations, and if you could reply to confirm you’re on your way, that would be very helpful. We’ll meet in the lobby at the agreed time.
We’ll go to the room, and you’ll make the rest of your payment. We’ll then have a short talk about wants and boundaries, following up on your questionnaire. This includes showing me anything you brought along yourself, such as oil or sex toys.
Then I’ll ask you to rinse off in the shower, come back out in the towel or bathrobe provided, then take it off and lie on the bed.
During the massage, the lights will be dimmed, the room will be warm, and there will be calm music, which I’ll provide unless you send me a playlist beforehand. You’ll lie on the hotel bed plus my headrest tool designed to make a standard bed as comfortable as a massage table. The massage will proceed as described below, but tailored to your desires.
At the end, I’ll shower first while you spend a few minutes alone relaxing and rehydrating. Then you’ll shower and get dressed. If you’re happy to do so, we’ll briefly chat afterwards so you can share any feedback. Then I’ll send you off, and that’s the end!
For a 90-minute massage, expect the whole experience from ‘Hi!’ to ‘Goodbye!’ to take up to 2.5 hours.
What actually happens in a sensual massage?
Every massage is different depending on your desires, but you can expect your experience to consist of these three phases.
The massage begins with gentle sensual touch and firm muscle work on the whole body with grapeseed oil: a traditional therapeutic massage with a bit of teasing. This is to heighten your senses and relax the body, including the head, feet, back, arms, legs, and shoulders, as desired. You’ll be lying face down for this phase.
As your body becomes responsive, the massage will move to the more intimate places that traditional massage therapists don’t touch. I’ll follow your body’s cues as we explore body-to-body contact – the front of my body sliding on the back of yours – and arousal of your clitoral, vaginal, and anal areas, possibly building up to penetration and/or orgasm. The exact techniques used depend on your wants and boundaries, so it’s different every time. I moderate my touch to build up arousal and keep the stimulation constantly exciting. This is also when you can begin to try out reciprocal touch, if comfortable and inspired.
At some point during the massage, I’ll ask you to turn over and lie on your back. At this point the massage will alternate between therapeutic (non-erotic) touch of the front of your whole body and thorough massage of your breasts and genitals for a satisfying finish. If applicable, this is also when we’re likely to venture into play with toys, heavier reciprocal arousal, lessons and demonstrations of sexual technique, and other requests. We’ll let your body decide exactly when the massage ends – when I sense a possible conclusion and we’re close to the massage conclusion time, I’ll ask if you want to end there or keep going a little longer.
These questions can be discussed on a case-by-case basis. Fill out the booking form with your preferences, and let’s see what we can do!
Not at all. This is your massage, so come how you’re most comfortable. I’ll have my legs and underarms shaved and pubic hair trimmed short because that’s how I’m most comfortable.
First, see this resource for a list of medical contraindications to ensure it’s safe for you to proceed with the massage.
If that’s all good, then mention your concerns in the booking form, and let’s talk about them. If pain is the issue, keep in mind that the massage is tailored to your wants and boundaries. So if a certain kind of touch will cause you pain or discomfort, we’ll avoid it. I’ll also be responsive to your feedback throughout. As a woman with adenomyosis, I understand the challenges of walking that fine line between pain and pleasure.
Honestly? If you can, consider coming anyway. I’m a big believer in menstrual cycle awareness and getting rest—pure, relaxing, do-nothing, no-phone-or-internet rest—during my bleed. I would be thrilled to help you get that kind of rest through a sensual massage. For some, menstruation can even be the most sexually pleasurable phase of the cycle. Just let me know right away that you’re menstruating so I can bring disposable padding to put under you, or you can bring your own. If you’d rather not receive the massage while bleeding, get in touch so we can look at the possibility of rescheduling.
I have experience massaging trans women (as well as trans men) and am fully open to discussing this possibility. Just let me know as much as you’re comfortable revealing about your body up front. My training is in pleasuring the female body only, so my biggest concern is whether I have the right skills to give you a good time! If we decide I’m not the right fit, I’ll help you find other providers who might be.
The basic idea is the same, in that both types of massage provide you with a way to experience your sexuality and sensuality in a controlled space. Many of the kinds of stimulation involved are also similar.
However, my massage isn’t associated with any particular spiritual tradition and doesn’t include the rituals, meditation, or breathwork often associated with tantric massage. It’s simply about exploring yourself as a sensual and erotic being and immersing yourself in the primal world of intimate touch, whatever these things mean to you personally.
Of course. We can have a no-obligation chat over email, text, or phone or meet in person at a coffee shop, if distance permits. Just let me know your preference when you submit the booking form.
It’s impossible to entirely avoid the risk of STIs when skin-to-skin contact is involved. However, because of the nature of my work, I get tested regularly. Also, almost all kinds of touch involved in the massage carry a very low risk for most STIs, and we can exclude or modify the slightly riskier ones at your request. Since I’m not a medical professional, here’s a rare erotic-massage-related source from someone who is.
You can request alternative durations on the booking form, and I’ll quote you a bespoke price. To allow enough time for the female body to become fully aroused, I recommend 60 minutes minimum.
It happens! In that case, you can use our time together to receive a therapeutic-only massage, chat informally about any sexuality-related questions or concerns you have with a non-judgmental listener, and/or request educational demonstrations of sexual techniques as I perform them on myself.
Clients have also celebrated:
Overcoming anxiety around sex.
Being able to have her first sexual experience thanks to accommodation for neurodivergence.
Confirming her sexual orientation after years of questioning.
Orgasming during sex with another person for the first time.
Finding a new level of security in her gender identity.
Discovering new ways her unique body becomes aroused and climaxes.
My name is Eris.
I have an accredited diploma in Swedish full-body massage and have completed the one-to-one Intimacy Matters Professional Training in female-to-female sensual massage with London’s renowned ‘sex and relationship engineer’, Colin Richards. Colin has been combining sensual bodywork with sex counselling since 2006 and was the perfect mentor to teach me how to conduct this specialised and deeply personal work with the greatest professionalism.
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My journey to becoming a sensual masseuse for women began when I myself went looking for paid intimate female company in the UK.
I struggled.
I couldn’t find a single female-to-female offering in my area. Even among the relatively few providers who were open to meeting female clients in theory (or rather, in threesomes!), some declined to see a woman on her own once I got in touch. Most of the language on the websites was written for a default male client, which was understandable but didn’t exactly inspire confidence in the providers’ skill or eagerness around engaging with other women. The sites were also vague on the details I wanted as a first-time client.
In the end, I found someone who met most of my criteria. But had I been unable to travel to London, a two-hour train away, or to pay a London price, the experience I was seeking probably would have been out of reach.
And… I just hadn’t expected it to be so hard. After all, it’s the 21st century, and women – including women who like women – have needs, too.
That’s why my goal is to give women a safe and professional way to explore their bodies and their unique response to another woman’s touch. While I also serve London, my focus is on the North of England, where, as I found, female-to-female options are rarer.
I approach this work with the utmost passion. To me, the female sexual experience, as a thing independent of its roles in romance and society, is fascinating and sacred, and I’m always studying up on sexual techniques, the menstrual cycle, menopause, and other topics in women’s sexuality. There are very few things in this world as meaningful to me as bringing pleasure to all kinds of women.
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One more thing you should know about me: I have high-functioning autism. My unique brain wiring has gifted me with three prized qualities in a sensual masseuse for women: deep and patient focus, fine sensitivity to the nuances of stimulation, and, so I’m told, an unusual lack of self-consciousness around the body and its delights. I use all of these to your advantage in the massage. Being autistic also makes me an ideal match for neurodivergent or socially anxious women.
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Originally from tropical South Florida, I’ve lived in London, Oxford, Brighton, Portsmouth, Tokyo, Chicago, New York City, and more. I now reside in the heart of Liverpool with my partner and mountains of books on goddesses and great women historical and fictional.
Orientation:
Lesbian
AGE:
EARLY THIRTIES
HEIGHT:
170 CM
See your all-inclusive price below based on the city centre where you would like to have the massage.
Your price includes:
The 90-minute massage
Hotel costs
My transport
Me booking the hotel for us
Use of my oils, toys, and other equipment (You can also bring your own!)
All you need to do is show up. I take care of everything else.
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Please note that a 50% non-refundable deposit is required at the time of booking to secure your appointment. The remainder of the fee is due, in cash or by online payment (I’ll provide a link for you to pay on your smartphone), by the time we meet on the day.
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I do my best to make female-to-female sensual massage affordable while still being fair to myself as a professional. But if the cost is a barrier, get in touch about payment by barter (exchange).
LIVERPOOL:
£160
MANCHESTER:
£185
LONDON:
£280
Ready? Fill out the form below to start your journey. If you have any questions first, don’t hesitate to get in touch at sensualfemininebodywork@gmail.com or via the WhatsApp button in this page’s header and footer.
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Please note that submitting this form does not constitute a confirmed booking. For that, you’ll need to (1) receive email or text confirmation from me and (2) pay the 50% deposit via the link I send you.
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I can’t wait for us to get to know each other better.